Urgent advice needed...........im going mad with this situation...!!!?

You both have seriously low self-esteem. Your partner is a dick but you tolerate it. He does not respect you, he is not interested in the relationship. I'm sorry but the sooner you realize you can do better, even if you are alone, the better. Good luck.

Does she still have feelings for me?

I want my ex back and this week we both went to vegas for a work trip/vacation (im 19 she's 18) we talked and everything, we joked with each other and we hung out a lot. We broke up 4 months ago and it's because shes going off to college next year. We didnt have any arguments during the vacation but we did sit together and hang out a lot. Im pretty sure I caught her a couple of times staring at me in the pool and at other times. I feel like she still has feelings for me, but im not sure. I want her back really bad, I wanted to tell her how I felt but i never got a good opportunity. The last we night we were there she got a call from her parents because they were staying at a different hotel and all of the seminars were at the hotel i was staying at. We were walking around the mirage with a couple of friends when she got a call from her parents it was 10 pm and they were waiting at the lobby of the hotel for her, they argued and she started to cry because her parents were mad at her and she was in trouble. We got back to the hotel and we went to my room cause she left her gear bag there and we had to grab it. We got in the elevator just us and she said she was in big trouble, so i pulled her in and just gave her a hug cause she was really distraught about her family. When i gave her the hug she put her arms around my hips. We got to my room and she grabbed her stuff and i gave her another hug and just told her she's only gotta put up with it for another month. Heading back to the lobby she was freaking out a I rubbed her back and she didnt do anything to stop me. does she have feelings for me still? (she was my first girlfriend too (i know pathetic) so I dont know whats going on)

Believers: Have you been conditioned to respect (and never question) authority?

Absolutely. My parents told me so often that "children should be seen, not heard". I think it was that controlling attitude that actually drove me away from my parents, my pastor, my church, etc.

After nine yrs i decided to break up with my girlfriend did i do the right thing...need as much insight as pos?

After nine yrs i broke up with my g/f did i do the right thing? Last night I broke up with my girlfriend of nine years. She was so hurt and distraught I broke down. I told her I just need time and can't be in a relationship right now. I just felt we drifted apart. She blamed me for everything and lashed out. I spent most the night after I left with her on the phone. She said she wanted a life with me n she will never be with someone else n now she's alone. Also she said while talking that she for seen this and that im a lair and a monster. She want to move in a house with me and start a life together. Im very upset I wasn't happy for a long time and I just couldn't deal. Now I feel worse then I did before. I want to meet new people but I don't think I can do it either. I just want both of us to be happy. Im fighting to keep my self in check bc I feel like I made a mistake. I don't know what to do. Every thing just went to hell. I should told her this months ago but I though it was just a phase but I never got over it. I feel like I lost my best friend. I never did a break up before n now I feel sick. Please help... Also I never cheated on her but their is a girl im very interested that makes me happy when im hanging out with her. She knows I like her but I have not told her because I was in a relationship. Im not sure if it will ever be more then friends but I do have strong feeling for her. And that was part of the reason I broke up because I was feeling something for some one else and she deserves someone that can be there for her 100%

Is it normal for a child to be so emotional because of a death?

well being an emotional wreck through middle and high school isnt so bad...living that. But you should do somthing with him you both like, find whatever makes him happy. But music heals the soul too, so try presenting him new music that he likes...try Skillet, they have amazing songs...quite relatable.

Liberals, does this make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?

Why is this addressed to liberals? Are you including the ACLU in this challenge? In any case, no. You can continue to point out every single instance of old or young or other individuals being subjected to airport searches but unless you are advocating exempting entire groups from searches, you are contributing nothing worthwhile in terms of how to screen passengers.

Is "premonition" used correctly?

It depends on the context. "Premonition" means a vision of something that will happen in the future. If that's the case, then you did use it correctly.